Attraction Switches

According to Neil Strauss there are some attraction switches that you should flip inside woman if you want her to be attracted to you. He and his buddies have put down a long list and Neil Strauss says that it boils down to a few.

1. You must show her that you’re safe.
2. You must show her that you have either ambition, motivation, or job/financial security.
3. You must show her that you’re different than the other guys, that you are not generic or boring, that she can learn something from you or grow with you, that you have a sense of adventure or creativity or spirituality.
4. You must be the PRIZE of the room.
5. It’s a big world and we all feel alone in it, so if you can demonstrate that you UNDERSTAND her and where she comes from, she will feel chemistry.
6. You need an aura of depth and mystery. You must maybe show a vulnerable or wounded side of yourself, you must not give away everything for free, you must be a puzzle she wants to figure out.
7. You must show her that you are NOT horny, but sexual.

Neil Strauss argues that if you are able to flip these ’switches’ inside a woman you will definitely get hooked.