This Is An Idea

This is an expression made by Neil Strauss regarding the pickup community “The community is a forking path. And it can lead you into the light or the darkness. The choice is yours.”  He say that whenever he discuss the community with outsiders the question always comes out. But what Neil says is that the community have made him a better person to an extent some people will not believe. But there are some guys who were really cool which have entered the community who become social robots. This is why Neil Strauss say that the community is a forking path.

The light is a place where you are at your best all the time. It is where you finally find yourself and bring out all the personality and spark and confidence and charm and humor and talent that only your mother ever knew you had before.So if the community is bringing you out of your shell, improving your social skills in all areas of your life, making you move through the world more confidently, making you the master of your reality, improving your physical appearance, widening your circle of friends, acquaintances, and women, — and ultimately making you a happier person — then you are in the light.

The dark path is much different. It’s where somewhere deep inside you hate yourself and don’t believe that people will like you if you reveal your true self. It’s where you start hurting or deceiving people and where you lose touch with your friends and family, and only hang out with women.

So step back for a moment, and look at your experiences in the community. Make sure that you are on the right path. If not, drive yourself away from women and do some non-pickup related activity.